A couple celebrating fifty golden years together, were asked what was their secret. It was a poignant moment, where both man and woman searched for a one line answer to give justice to something that took them years to master. They knew, as most who do who have lived a long live together, that what they had achieved was indeed no small endeavor. So to even ask such a question was ridiculous. The man blurted out zealously “Give her everything she wants!! And the Woman with a small cackle to her voice said Don’t ask for much!!
Everyone laughed at the sincerity of their statement. How could anyone possibly argue with that logic.
It has been often said “Love is simple it is we who complicate it” I am sure the couple who celebrated their fifty years together could agree with that statement as well as disagree. As we have all had those moments of simplicity and complexity in every relationship we have ever been involved with. The reality is the answer is not the same for everyone.We get involved for its simplicity, and stay with the person because the complexity of it is much bigger than just loving a person, but loving ourselves while loving another.